Tag Archives: Beauty

Fly Read: The seriousness of one’s intent

11 Jun

A close friend of mine recently posted a quote from Anthony Bourdian that stated, “the journey is part of the experience- an expression of the seriousness of one’s intent. One doesn’t take the A train to Mecca.” This quote really resonated with me because my intent of studying writing and than traveling to Africa to teach writing is very serious.

The objective of this educational/missionary trip is to learn as much as possible so that I can give as best as possible.  The course at Yale University will help me revise my pilot television script and the course at the University of Cambridge will assist in the finishing of my fiction book for teenage girls. With both projects I am looking to re-shift the perception of Black girls and Black women via the media, I am developing projects that will showcase the full-dimension of Black teenage girls and Black women.

There is a problem in the media where it seems that networks are keen on showcasing Black women in one dimension, a dimension that strips the soul and the deep rooted history of African American women by showing only superficial, overtly sexually, and angry Black women. Black women are the capstone of American history and argumentatively the strongest persons of mankind. The strength and the depth and the pride of being unashamedly and apologetically Black needs to be displayed in the media and I am hoping to showcase the aforementioned.

I am specifically hoping to reach teenage Black girls from the ages 12-18 with my fictional book series starting with the first book tentatively titled, The Fly Girl Guide To The 6th Grade. This book which I am currently on the third chapter of is a division of my online website, The Fly Girl Guide (www.theflygirlguide.com). It will serve as an alternative look at middle school and high school in the eyes of a young girl who is seeking to navigate middle school and high school with an independent thought and with style and grace.

My television script has a similar concept showcasing a Black professional woman living and thriving in Brooklyn, New York. What Living Single showcased in the 90’s, I am looking to reinvent with a new aged twist. Black women are spiritual, funny, educated and married and I am hoping to show a narcissistic generation who loves bathroom pictures and relishes in all that is ratchet that being a lady will never go out of style.

This campaign is bigger than me; it’s for the moms who have to explain to their daughters that she shouldn’t aspire to be just a basketball wife, it’s for the aunties who have to explain that Kim Kardashian isn’t a role model, it’s the for the teachers who have to discuss why Michelle Obama is an inspiration as opposed to a pop star.

My intent is to make sure the media takes Black girls and women serious as not all of us are trying to put on a minstrel show. We are mothers, wives, friends and we are fly.

I’m not asking you to go broke, I just ask for a little support to help with a big cause.

http://www.gofundme.com/flycarla

Fly Living: Beauty Rest

7 Mar

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Beauty rest is essential for a fly girl, so why not lay your head on luxury pillows? I was doing my rounds on Etsy and I came across TheLindas Shop filled with mocked designer throw pillows. The pillows have vinyl thermo welding which means the writing is resistant to any washing. TheLindas Shop, $39

You’ve Got Fly: Inbox Scan

13 Feb

You’ve got mail! Fly picks from my inbox.

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Kate Spade: Something For Cocktail Hour (pictured)

Cole Haan: President’s Day Weekend Sale- Up too $100 off

Barneys New York: The Love Yourself Event is Back! Get Your Complimentary Beauty Goodie Bag

Nails inc.: New Gel effect top coat just arrived!

Mossman Clothing: New Arrivals- Faux Leather and Floral

ASOS: 10% off everything

Fly Beauty: The color of New York Fashion Week

12 Feb

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This color is perfect! Rich, creamy and the most interesting combo of a deep, slate blue with a slight green shimmer.

Stag Do Nail Lacquer by Butter London, $15

You’ve Got Fly: Inbox Scan

29 Jan

You’ve got mail! Fly picks from my inbox.

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Mossman Clothing: Summer Skirts + Sale Continues

In God We Trust: Sample sale starts this Friday at the Soho location (Pictured)

Brooklyn Based: Five Meals for $5 or Less

Kate Spade: hey bright eyes…

Of a Kind: Diana Black Diamond Bracelet By workhorse jewelry

Nail Rock: Nail Rock Caviar Manicure has Landed

Fly Fashion: Glass Cloud Vintage’s LuxyMask

25 Jan

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This weather is unfair! Mother Nature is being a real bish right now but I got something for her; Glass Cloud Vintage’s LuxyMask is the best way to brave the cold. This item is sure to garner two reactions: NYers will think you are going to rob them or they will think you’re going to rob them luxuriously.

By Glass Cloud Vintage, $30

Fly Event: A Night With The Dolls

7 Dec

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One of my fave boutiques in Brooklyn turns fives tomorrow! Paper Doll Boutique in downtown Brooklyn is holding a party celebrating their fifth year anniversary and celebrating Regina Rodriquez also known as “Nails by Regina” new residency at Paper Doll!

It will be a night of treats, sweets, and surprises. Drinks will also be served to attendees that are 21 and over.

Who: Paper Doll Boutique’s 5 Year Anniversary Celebration with Nails By Regina!

What: A celebration at Paper Doll Boutique where ONE very lucky party attendee will have the opportunity to win a complimentary nail session with Nails By Regina.

Where: Paper Doll Boutique- 921 Fulton Street Brooklyn, New York 11238

When:Saturday, December 8, 2012 from 6:00PM until 10:00PM

Admission: Free!

Link: http://www.facebook.com/paperdollnyc

Fly link of the day…16 NYC bachelors—and how to contact them!

25 Sep

It’s cuffing season.

Dating in NYC isn’t easy, so the editors over at Refinery29 did the work for you, scouring OkCupid for 16 awesome guys for every bachelorette (or bachelor).

Check out the bachelors here. Via Refinery29.

Fly Tip Of The Day: Matching Lips & Tips

20 Sep

Neatly manicured nails and a matching lip is not only on trend, it is totally chic. Think it’s too matchy-matchy? I don’t think so. It’s been seen on the runway and is reminiscent of old Hollywood glam.

butter London has just released their Autumn/Winter Lippy Gloss and Nail Lacquer Polish Duo Collection making it totally easy to match your lips and tips.
Grab the La Moss,  it’s a dark vampy wine inspired color that is perfect for fall.

butter London – La Moss Lip Gloss  ($17) and La Moss Nail Lacquer ($14)

Fly Beauty: Azealia Banks Partners with M.A.C for New Lipstick

27 Aug

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Azealia is making moves! The 212 rapper and Queen of Twitter beef just inked a deal with M.A.C. cosmetics to produce a deep plum-colored lipstick called Yung Rapunxel.

The semi-matte  lipstick will be available online for $15 on September 5th via M.A.C.’s website and in New York stores  for Fashion’s Night Out on September 6th.

This color is right on time as I am in a need of a new fall signature lip color; it will compliment my chocolate complexion beautifully.